Hello!👋
My name is Chituru Chikwem, but friends call me Cici.
I am a Human Resource Personnel, a Web developer and a seasoned writer. However, these days I do less writing (except for codes), and more talking.
I like to talk. I like to talk about myself.
over-time, I realized successful people spend more time on themselves, discovering, caring for, and protecting themselves and the resources that provides them a more happier and fulfilled life. This cuts across their physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing, that in turn affects their social life (family, career, relationships). It all starts with them (YOU).
This discovery helped shape my life.
I began my journey of self-discovery and inner-healing, and gradually worked my way out of depression, low self-esteem, no-confidence and people-pleasing, to a life I have always desired to live.
I believe you too can be all that you desire to be and enjoy a happier life filled with love and satisfaction. I truly believe so, and would love to walk with you through your journey, until you evolve.
Welcome on board!✋
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My Story
My story started no different from that of the 'common' girl on the street.
My story is not one of the very exciting stories to share, so I'll save it for 'my blog' contents.
Growing up in the most minimal economic, social and cultural standard, it was almost impossible to create any kind of standard different from what I had experienced, OR dare to even dream to be different. I grew up looking up to my widowed mother who gave all she could, but unfortunately wasn't adequate enough for a girl with so much ambitions.
However, I was able to work my way into the circle of people with higher standard, values and expectations and that's where my suffering began. I suffered humiliation and abuse, and shame. I gradually began to loose my sense of self-worth, confidence, and I finally came to the conclusion that I was a nobody, that I will never be anything better than what people think of me, that I was the most insignificant thing in the world, that I was worthless. And so I settled for less. I was deteriorating.
Well, settling for less never worked either, that was when I discovered that even the 'least qualified' man will drain you to make himself feel good. It's not a thing of the rich and influential, It is a 'people' thing. P
I had to make a decision to fight for my sanity, to go for more, to love myself enough to pursue my dreams, to put myself first, to never give anyone the right to treat me less...
My story didn't end the way it started. I had to re-write it, and I hope that sharing my self-help guides with you, through my blog, podcast and vlog will encourage you enough to re-write yours.
It would mean a lot to me.
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I'm always looking for new and exciting opportunities to connect with you. Let's connect.